My boyfriend isn't very supportive of my dreams

So I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years since we were 15 were both 22 now he knows I love to sing and dance, I do Karoke here and there but he doesn't support me he doesn't come see me or even encourage me to keep chasing my dreams, anyways the question is would u ladies say he loves me? Everytime I ask him to come he says "thats not my type of crowd I don't wana sit there all day" it hurts because I feel as a spouse you should support your lover no matter ugh can someone give me their thoughts on this? Please and thank you!