Sex Quiz to tell partner my kinky needs?

What do you think about me doing a quiz with my partner to find out if we have any secret fantasies or kinky ideas.

I know I do, but it might be easier if we talk about it in a fun way? ?

I think we might be sexually incompatible, I'm submissive and love rough sex...

He is just very passive and happy to let me do all the work.

I don't know whether he's lazy or just acting out his sexually needs???? Help!