Me and my boyfriend have had sex twice and both times it hurts bad but it's not terrible pain, it's still not enjoyable though, the first time we had sex I bled like crazy for 2 days the toilet bowl would be filled with a mixture or urine and blood but then it eventually went away, I figured it was my hymen, the second time we had sex it still hurt, we tried lube and it helped a bit, he says it because I'm tight, this time I didn't bleed as much just very little, he gave me some advice and told me to do use more than one finger down there when masturbating to help me stretch it out, have any of you gals experience this problem before or what advice can you give me ? 😩