How do I tell him?!

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My boyfriend sucks at everything sexual from fingering to going down on me to straight up intercourse. I don't know how to tell him without hurting his feelings. Is there a way I could maybe help him?

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Don't tell him he sucks because that will destroy his confidence. Just guide him as he does things to you. Make it fun for him. When he does something you like, moan and praise him so he knows he's doing a good job and will want to keep pleasing you even more. In the same time, ask him what he likes that you do so he doesn't feel like it's one sided. You can both learn new things about each other and pleasuring yourselves :)

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Whatever you do do NOT tell him to look at porn. I'm an adult model/actress and let me tell you nothing they do feels good it's all fake most of the time it hurts that's why we use numping jells. I'm being a hypocrite but porn ruined men's idea of what sex should be. Just tell him you want to try new things and help guide him along.

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Try telling him you want to try some new things and you might have to direct him how to do them? And let him know how much better you like it? That's all I can think of cause it's a sensitive subject

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Tell him to study up pornhub.com thats why my boyfriend watches and he is so fricken good at things. Unf. 💦💦💦

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Girl tell him what you want and how you want it...my boyfriend caught on to what i wanted because i would describe it and he took notes and watched a little porn and now our sex life is AMAZING!

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Tell him what you want him to do. He has no idea what he's doing is not working, so tell him how you would like it.

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Just find out things you like and guide him to it. Once he finds it show him how much you like what he's doing.

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Tell him but in a nice way, my man kinda sucked at it too but I just said "I know you've had sex before me... but all women and their bodies are different. I don't like certain things that maybe other women you've been with have. Can we have a night where I guide you and tell you what I like and what I don't as you do it and help you learn what I like?"

And some men like when a woman takes charge... But don't tell him to watch porn! Not unless you want exaggerated facial expressions and noises lol.

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