Ladybit hygiene: two part question.

So I typically would use a shower head massager just to give my ladybits a nice rinse. But I just moved into an apartment with a rainfall shower head that's not removable...
1) How do you guys clean up down there in the shower? 
2) And then if you use those wet wipes by like Charmin or something to clean up, can your SO taste the cleaning agent (I guess??) from the wipes when they're down there??