21 weeks and it hurts.

Im 20 wks and i actually experienced this today! The way you tighten up during a braxton hicks contraction is the same as orgasm induced contractions, and i was used to the "after" being uncomfortable but today i couldn't even finish. It just hurt so bad i just look st my SO and said i wasn't okay and we stopped but i kept hurting for maybe 5-10 minutes after we stopped. Of course it felt like an eternity but once it was over it was gone. Now we're scared to have sex which really sucks because I'm so in the mood here lately. :(

I am in pain every time we have sex. It's like I'm a virgin. I can't take it! I talked to my dr and he told me it was completely normal. To try to use lube. 

I haven't even told my husband the problem. We don't have sex much as it is. I never want it anymore and now this. He's miserable but he's being a very good sport about it. Things are definitely changing and he's been really sweet. I just hate to make him feel bad.