hi yall... i live in a small town and need some advice, i have missed my last prenatal visit due to bad transportation services here they tell me they cant find a driver at last minute at county transit two times in a row and waiting to go thur but urgent

Cindy
I took a bath yesterday started spotting blood this is my 4th pregnancy I went to the ER and all I seen was a nurse who confirmed I'm having contractions but sent me home never seen a Dr or got checked pelvicly and being my 4th baby I got worried and checked myself afterward the hospital and my cervix is extremely soft.. I know that sounds strange but I know my body and know it's toooo early for all of this am I wrong for thinking that this is urgent? is it right that the ER never sent a Dr to check me giving that I was spotting blood and having contractions in the first place???? what do I do now??? I refuse to loose my child due to their incompetence