Baby shower

ND • Ttc
Our family is far away and a distant cousin who is a little older than us graciously offered to throw us a baby shower. I want to say yes but don't want to trouble her a lot. Also I have a handful of close friends (7) that I would like to invite and we are close to all of their husbands as well. Can we invite the husbands too? What can I do to help out more with the shower?