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So me and my boyfriend have sex often. But he always just gets right down to it. Not any kind of foreplay or anything. And it honestly doesn't do much for me. Any ideas on how to fix this? Thanks!

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My boyfriend and I like to play a game   One person does something to the other, or a series of things (ex. kissing the neck down to the chest, abdomen) then the other person does mimics the same thing then takes there "turn" by choosing what happens next. We go back and forth until we can't keep our hands off each other.  Our only rule is you have to do what is done to you by the other person. It's a great way to learn what really turns your partner on.  I've even learned a few things about myself.

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My SO is the same way. I enjoy just getting down to it depending on my mood, but I fully see where you are coming from, sometimes a girl just needs more attention.  The best bet would just be to discuss it, or initiate the four play and then gush about how much you enjoyed it and want that more often later.

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Tell him you want to spice it up. The best way to receive oral sex in bed, is to do him the favor first. Trust me, he'll go down on you once you do! Try to have more intimate sex and explore each other's body's. Once you feel confident and comfortable with each other, there's no limit to what you can do together.

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Just tell him straight up! Mine did the same, otherwise they really won't understand.

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Just tell him it's not working for you, you need more attention. Usually guys are pretty willing to what you want them to.

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Try talking to him about it, I'm sure he will understand.

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Just tell him that you need more than that , tell him to explore you're body try new things and see what you like , I mean you must be some kind of aroused if you are wet enough to get down to it , idk just tell him to kiss your neck , bite , pull hair , be rough , just play it's actually really fun

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You could start the foreplay first and see if he would get the hint and follow your lead or u could just tell him straight up and try talking to him about it

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