My husband spilled the beans to my uncle forcing me to tell my mum I'm preg with #4. It went better than I thought altho she doesn't understand why anyone would want 4 kids and talked about emigrating. Iv had 2 mc in past and am now even more petrified of losing my baby now everyone knows. We don't get scanned until 12 weeks in uk the wait is killing me, time is killing me everyday feels like a life time, I can't allow myself to get excited I don't know how to relax :-(