What happens in Vegas....

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So my BF of almost a year and I are going to Vegas soon.. Just the 2 of us.. It's the first real trip we take together and I want it to be memorable, fun and super sexy...
Now I've had a few threesomes before and he never has ... I know it's one of his fantasies and I'm thinking of fulfilling it.. Never thought I'd ever consider this.. Ever.. But I really think he's the one.  But I've seen his porn preference.. And I don't want him to look back and feel like he missed out.. Plus I'd really enjoy it too.. I would never do it with a woman we know, it would have to be a stranger that I know we will never ever see again , and Vegas just seems like the perfect place.. 
Anyone of you ladies done this for your man? How did you choose? We're there any negative consequences? Do you regret it? Did it make you hurt? Was it worth it? I'll take all the advice I can get 😄😄

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I lived in Vegas for a few years and I can say with assurity that what happens in Vegas winds up on YouTube.

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I think having a 3some will obviously open up a pandoress box from hell. Yah u might have fun for a little while but once the high is over, u may have plant a seed in ur bf's head that u can never undo! This could lead to him cheating on u later on, and also stds so if he is the one, u should be his one and not rock the boat with another!!! Literally!!!!! I'm just keeping it real. I think this can hurt a serious relationship more then helping it.

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Don't do it. If he is the one why get another women involved in your vacation. Just give him the best sex and have fun. You never know the things that can come from that one "pleasure"

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I wouldn't do it in Vegas. You don't know what that person has.

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Ewwwwww.  The STDS won't stay in Vegas. I'm all for a fun threesome, but finding a hooker or stranger in the cesspool of America to share your bed?! No thanks. :)

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I would be worried about stds specially in place like that and I've done it before it breaks emotionally knowing you let him sleep with somebody else and the fact he could now fantasize about the other one while he is with u even if u won't see her again I say don't do it specially if he is the one

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Hey girl,
The expression goes, "Don't shit where you sleep". You're very smart not so it with a woman you know. That would just cause problems. If you're highly considering this I would say there are several things you should take into consideration: 
1. Make sure this is actually what YOU want. Do not do this kind of thing because you think it is what he wants. That will cause a lot of insecurities an problems between you two which is totally not worth it. If it is truly something that raises your freak flag, let it fly, but don't if your only incentive is to make him happy. 
2. YOU pick this girl. Picking a girl you're attracted to will be better. That way, you won't feel like he is more attracted to her more than you and she won't be a threat to you. 
3. Be safe! You don't want to end up with a disease you can't get rid of. Find a clean girl. Of course there is no way of knowing, so this is a tough one to get around. Use condoms I suppose. 
4. Set some ground rules. Let him know what will bother you and let him know what won't. Communicate! If you don't want him kissing her on the mouth for instance, let him know that. Discuss what you can't and can't accept. Also, set rules for sleeping with women when you're not there. That one should be obvious, but men need things spelled out for them. 
5. If you do this, you can't bring it up in a fight later on. You can't get mad at him for something you were okay with at the time but might have regretted later. You also can't let your insecurities cause you to distrust him.

All in all, just be open and communicate with him as well as yourself. Good luck, get some hot lingerie. 😘😘😘😘

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Having a threesome isn't something you surprise him with. If you want your relationship to last it's something you have to discuss properly first. I recommend having relationship counselling specifically on how to keep your relationship strong before, during and after a threesome. It will help you both set boundaries and know what each of you do/don't want. I can't stress strongly enough how important it is!!! You want this to be something to share together and make you stronger, not something that ends up destroying your relationship.
Best of luck!!!!!

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I live in Vegas and I've worked in Vegas...DONT do it in Vegas!! Haha what happens here, follows you home!!! Yikes!!!

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Just be careful and keep your fingers crossed you don't get an std. It's your relationship if you want a threesom go for it. Me personally I couldn't do it with a guy I was in a relationship with because you're opening doors you might not be able to close later. If he ever cheats on you later down the road, his defense is going to be "well you let me in vegas" I've heard of so many relationships going bad because of this. But than there are those relationships that are into this and it works just fine but you know yourself well enough to know if you are the jealous type and if so don't do it.

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