No Birth Control!!

Shamekia
I have a history of blood clots so my doctor suggest that I not be on any bc with estrogen in it which is basically all of them except for one.. which is an IUD that lasts for 10 years! I don't want to wait that long to have children though so I decided against it. However, I'm getting married in 3 weeks and I don't want to use condoms with my husband but we want to wait a while to have kids. I feel overwhelmed... has anyone else had to go through this or something similar.