My husband was just got back from a deployment last year. It was a long deployment.

Now he has been given the opportunity to deploy again.

He asked me how I felt about it. Of course I said I don't want him to go.

After a heated debate I told him he should just go.

It's clear he wants to go.

Am I wrong for being honest?

He asked ME how I felt.

What did he expect me to say?

I just feel like he should go because if he doesn't he'll just resent me for it.

I just feel like it is a lose lose and there was no right answer.

He says it to improve our financial situation.

I just finished my degree and I'm starting my new job @ 33 dollars an hour. I really feel like we don't need the money.

I feel so sad.

And hurt.

Is there another perspective out there that can help me see things another way?

I'm starting to feel like our marriage is near an end. 😢