Ttc & engaged

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Finacė and I have been ttc for almost 6 months... we haven't had any luck...so we set a date but don't want to give up trying, but also I refuse to get married pregnant! Don't get me wrong a baby would be a blessing at any time.. but I'm high risk already having 2 mc...and I don't want to sit and not be able to do anything on my wedding right..plus I already bought my dress! Any suggestions??