Baby shower after the 1rst

Julie
Is it wrong that I'd like a baby shower and this is my 4th?
 
Here are my reasons...we thought we were done after 3 this precious baby is a surprise. We gave away pretty much everything that we had.
There's going to be 4 years between our youngest and the baby.
Being this is for sure our last due to a procedure I have to get that will make it impossible to have more I'd really
Like to make a big deal and celibrate.
I mentioned it to my mom and she seemed almost appalled and was saying how you get one for the first baby and that's it and how no one would come.