I need advice and heard this was a great place.... I have sex with a condom and pullout and am still stressed that I get a girl/gf pregnant. I'm 18 and I feel like less of a man that I get so scared, so freaked out... I feel bad.  Idk why I get so scared.  I never had a break, or slip off, I used the condom the whole time.  And check for leaks after.  Yet I'm so stressed I break out and feel horrible for weeks.... Am I less of a man?  My gf doesn't really get nervous ever, but me, I am so tense after sex....