My husband n I were married 2 yrs ago. Planned spending a yr together, then starting fam. Well...unfortunately, we have had 2 miscarriages w/ D&C's w/n the yr n we both had major career changes (reducing our income significantly). All of this has put a huge strain n stress, causing conflict in our marriage this past yr, but improving n the last month. It has been 3 mths since last D&C n I am completely ready to TTC again...BUT... he is not!! He does not want to try at this time n unsure when n/or if he will want to again.

I am 33 now n am scheduled to deploy next yr. That will make me 34 when I get back n I know chances are much lower as age goes up. 

I see his logic but it's REALLY SADDENING AND HURTS not being able to conceive again. I have been sending prayers everyday but don't know what else to do.