I've known this guy for over year and I started dating him. We had amazing sex and had so many things in common. We would laugh at each other and play with nerf guns, chill in his hammock talking about the clouds, and have great quality time. Yesterday I went to his house. I told him that I wasn't in the mood for anything, that I just wanted to watch tv. He said he respected that. Only a few minutes later he starts rubbing my leg and kissing my neck. I reminded him that I wasn't in the mood. And he said 'fine. I guess we'll just sit here and do nothing.' A little later I told him that I was tired and going to take a nap. he said I could nap on his bed.  I woke up with him caressing me and I slapped his hand and told him to stop. After I came home I texted him and asked if he was just using me for sex (he said he'd never do that), and he said 'it's partially true'. I honestly thought he was a sweet genuine guy who actually cared about me. I guess I was wrong again. Sorry for the rant.