In the beginning it was like a pornography. We ALWAYS Did it...& always tried new things. He was the biggest freak I knew. 

We now have a son who will be 2 in October...I feel like even before he was conceived, all of a sudden the sex just slowed down dramatically. I also noticed that it only lasted for a couple minutes at most, which was never the case before. We are almost 11 years apart. He is 34 and I am 23. 

Do you think him not being able to last or make me cum has caused him to totally withdrawal and check out from lovemaking? Is he ashamed? I did gain a decent amount of weight since the baby but I'd like to think I'm still a MILF LOL. 

I need some insight from other women who may be going through the same thing or have any advice. 

There are so many things that come to my mind but not knowing for sure can drive you crazy. He is very prideful, God forbid I actually say these things to him and make him feel  incompetent then it will always seem awkward to have sex. I honestly can't remember half the time when we had sex last I just know I am very sexually frustrated and I've never been the type of woman to make the first move Ever. I've never had to. Usually always  ready and willing.....