For the past two years I have been a slave. A slave to the will of someone I thought cared about me. Someone I fell so hard for and loved so dearly that you would think I had the perfect significant other. It was all lies. They held me at a distance on a leash while they slept with other women and proceeded to tell me about it and expect me to be ok. They emotionally abused me. They told me they were going on dates. Why was I so stupid to continuously love this person.? I tried so hard to please them...even developed a submissive personality to further allow this person control. Now they tell me they are unhappy with me and I cant help but worry and wonder what I did wrong. I am also currently in a new relaonship. This is distuptive. I know i need to take out the trash but I dont know how to get rid of my feelings