We've been together 11 yrs and married for 2. That's 11 years of trying to please u and raise our kids and keep our house. U don't make it easy for me when I spend all our money on weed and leave us skint. I can't take the kids out anywhere that costs money. I can't go to the hairdressers or treat myself anyway possible as u spend all our money. We can barely pay the bills. Yes u work and work long hours and as u keep throwing up in my face coz j only work part time but that does not give u the right to spend it all on drugs. When u don't have them u go into a mood that no one can talk to u. We walk on egg shells to see what mood ur in. Then today u take a day of and we decide to drive 2 hrs away to a forest park that the kids have been rhyming on to go to. We finally get there and the car park is full so we r directed half a mile down the road to a park and ride and u say u don't wanna go on a bus and drive us home. How selfish r u ? Its always ur way or no way. So now the kids r home and disappointed and I feel nothing but resentment for u. Next time u can stay at home