My husband has no sex drive??

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How come at 27 years old my husband has no sex drive? What can I do I feel like I've tried everything! How am I supposed to get pregnant if he is not intimate?

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My husband is 26 and I have to beg or throw a temper tantrum to get him to even consider having sex with me so at that point sex sucks because it's forced.

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We were (still are) in the exact same boat! We finally went to the dr for our yearly checkup and come to find our, my husband's T was incredibly low... Not just for 28 but overall! Since we are trying to conceive, the Dr said putting him on T meds would reduce his sperm count so we are really trying to get his numbers up naturally... We've done a complete 180 on our diets, we go walking about 3 miles every day (we work together so we break it up between 2 walks at work and 1 when we get home). You could also ask the dr to test his b12 to see if that is also low... The Dr. DID put my hubby on weekly b12. shots which will have no negative affect on trying to convince and they have already helped out with his overall energy!

It may be something everyone wants to consider... I know from experience the feeling of "neglect" and like you're having to force it on him... I can't tell you how many disappointing nights I've had but at least we now have an answer!

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Is he depressed and/or on antidepressants? Both can destroy sex drive and often make it difficult to orgasm too. Does he have stress at work? Insomnia? Is he self conscious about a recent weight gain or loss? Sorry for all the questions, and you obviously don't need to answer them. Definitely think about them though because chances are it's not something you're doing that's turning him off.

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My husband and i are both 26. We have sex only about 3-4 times a month. I pretty much have to beg him for it.

I dont think my hubby has a low sex drive, he has a history of using porn/masturbation over having sex with me....

Its been a long battle between us...

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Same problem here. It gotten to the point that I had to lay it all out for him. That without us having sex there will be no baby. I pretty much told him he needed to step up and we need to make this happen together. 
My husband is exhausted from work...

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OMG 😡 IM HAVING THAT SAME PROBLEM ,AT THAT SAME AGE (WELL HE TURN 28 LAST MONTH ) IDK WHAT TO DO AND MY SEX DRIVE HAS BEEN INSANE BUT HE'S JUST NOT WITH IT 😣😣😢 HELP !!!!!!!!!!

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I can't offer any advice but the one above has juat decribed my hubby  and he's 22 
Overweight
 insomnia 
 Self conscious
Depression... Etc
I try to help he pushes me away... I feel ur pain...
I hope your hubby gets better

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Both 27 and it's the same here. Maybe more now that I'm pg because I have no sex drive. So we are hardly ever having sex. But before I got pg it was hard to get dh to want to. Stress from work greatly affects my dh's sex drive and so we have periods where he has no want to and is too tired. I try not to take it personally. Right now I'm trying to put in the effort more since I had no sex drive at all.

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Q for everyone who answered. How many times a month do you have sex with your husband?

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Mine is 25 and has no sex drive and we're not the only ones so I'm almost getting concerned it's like a generational thing....... what the heck?!

My husband has no sex drive??

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