How do I get my boyfriend to want to give me oral?

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He always says he doesn't feel like it. We've been together for a year and he's only went down on me maybe 10 times

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Yea ask him why he doesn't like it..  And next time he says he doesn't feel like it then just tell him you don't feel like having sex and get dressed.

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Try asking him why exactly he doesn't like to or want to do it. Let him know that you really want him to and how much you love it when he does it. Make him feel like he's doing the best job in the world when he's doing it and it'll make him want to do it more.

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Tell him you really want it. I assume you go down on him... Tell him you don't feel it's fair to you. My hubby for a while wouldn't do it but expected me to.. And said it was because his ex didn't like it.. So I finally said look, I'm doing my fair share here. I'm not your ex... Ur not with her, you're with me now... And if it can't be 50/50 when it comes to this then it'll be 0/0 because  I'm not doing foreplay when I get nothing.

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U could try flavored lubes that might help him a bit. I know i dont like doing hubby all the time smell or taste is more noticeable on some days even if he washed so i use flavored lube it helps mask smell taste a little more

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Look, you can't force your partner to do anything. If his boundaries lie at giving head then that's that. BUT do you feel like you're doing things you don't really want to do? If you feel like you're doing things you don't want to do then you need to stop doing those things. Have a conversation about your sexual boundaries.

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Yeah just tell him how much you like it and also keep it clean down there for him

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My SO told me he was uncomfortable with it because before me, he never was really asked to give it. It took some time, but he does it more frequently now. Maybe you guys can try to 69 or get him going first so he's more relaxed?

How do I get my boyfriend to want to give me oral?

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