He has a girlfriend...

I met this guy about a month ago and we had been talking. At first just as friends but now we have kind of fell for eachother. He's been open in the past(pre-falling) that he's very unhappy with his girlfriend and has been for a while he just is scared on how she will handle it. I said I'm willing to wait but I think I'm done waiting. I don't know what to say to him so that I don't sound like I'm pressuring him but I also want to make it clear that I'm not gonna wait around forever. If anyone has advice let me know below! I appreciate it! I also want to clear up that we aren't doing anything or talking innapropiately I'm not a cheater never will be. 
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Sh

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It's because the relationship is fresh why he said he is not feeling his current girlfriend anymore. Don't b a enabler, instead encourage him to work out what he has with his gf. U may never know, he might try and it works out in ur favor. How would u feel if ur two are dating n them he breaks up with u for a different gurl? U guys are not kissing and sleeping together but ur conversations are way more interesting than that of his gf... give him space, encourage him to work it out, especially if the gurl didn't do him wrong... that gurl might b wondering why he drifted or might feel that something is wrong. Never sit and wait for a man, and never be with a man who jumps from one relationship to another. (These men don't know how it really feels to b hurt, does he have kids with her?) Think abt it, don't do to another female what u wouldn't want done to u regardless of whether u know her or not. 😉peace love and prosperity

Ke

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I think you should break things off, I can't imagine how she would feel if she knew. It might be in everyone's best interest to cut off your relationship with him.

Li

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I don't know how long you've been waiting but I think if he truly felt intense feelings for you, he would've left his girlfriend already. Instead, he's just pulling you along with promises of breaking up with her.

Da

Daylin • Aug 17, 2015
I have only been waiting for like a week I'm just very impatient