Miscarriage and D&C

Nicole
I went to my Dr appt for my sonogram appt. I'm 9 weeks and 2 days. Unfortunately the Dr said I was measuring 6 weeks and then she said there was no heartbeat. I'm so unbelievably upset. I'm trying to be strong but it's a bit hard right now. We have been TTC this baby #2 for 14 months and now we lost our peanut......
I am scheduled for a D&C for Thursday AM . I guess I am just looking to hear about anyone's experience with coping with a loss and how the D&C is , how you felt after, when did you lose your pregnancy symptoms,  when did you get your period? 
Also just wondering when you all started having sex after your D&C? 
We want to Start TTC right away again. 
Any help and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.