Need help/suggestions/comments please!!

Diane • Mommy of a sweet little boy 💙
Hello ladies! AF was due yesterday and I got my wonderful BFP on a digital first response test! This is our first pregnancy so we are newbies about the whole thing! My questions to you lovely ladies are:
1. When do we tell families/very close best friends? Keeping this from my family and my 2 best friends has been killing me since my first faint line 4 days ago! Lol
2. Our families live in two different states! Mine are here, and his are 8hours away! :/ We want the families to know at the same time without it being suspicious lol. Any suggestions?
3. When is the first sonogram usually? Just curious about this one. I'm making a conformation appt with my dr for next week
Thanks ladies! :)