Needing to vent...

Nellie
I see to many people these days having a child with every dude they get in a relationship with, some have 3-5+ kids all with different fathers.. Like really??!!! You can't just date a dude for awhile and see where things go and not rush into things and then when you both know it's right have a child?? And I know accidents happen (birth control failing) but come on when it starts to be a repeating pattern, really? Am I the only one that feels like this??