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Get over the loss of your baby when you have depression. I had my ovary removed due to an ectopic pregnancy. I've been having a really hard time dealing with it. I'm so upset and miserable. I don't know what to do. All I want is my baby

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I read a comment on here and it made me feel better. They wrote that it was ur babies aim in life to save ur life... It really touched me...

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I'm so sorry. You'll never get over it. Your grief will ebb and flow and change with time. The ways you cope will get better and the time between "grief attacks" will get longer and longer. Surgeries, your due date, and other big triggers will affect you, but it's all normal and a part of the process. You are a mother. Just ride the waves. Try to feel the feelings, but don't let them consume you.

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We all get well in our own time. Don't rush... I had my ectopic under 3 months ago with surgery.... I feel much better about thing but for 2 months after I was not in a good place... I talked it through on glow and feel better now

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I'm really sorry. I don't think you ever "get over it." More like you learn to find happiness among this dark horrible situation. First? Give yourself time to grieve. You will have days you feel great, then out of nowhere you'll have a day that is just a little too hard to bear. When my daughter passed away I promised myself that it wouldn't consume me because I truly believe that her life enriched mine. No matter how short it was, her life didn't ruin mine. I am still mourning for her and some days still get hard, but I am overall happy, or try to be... It's still very fresh.

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