Totally sucks!! I was a fit 112 lbs pre pregnancy! My first daughter everything went great. Lost he weight and was back in shape in no time. But with baby number 2 (10 yes apart mind you), I'm all tore up almost literally. My stomach muscles have ripped apart and nothing is helping. I can't do traditional exercises and pelvic floor exercises are doing nothing. 10 weeks postpartum and I still look about 18-20 weeks pregnant. The rest of me is skinny. I feel so ugly and unattractive. I don't even want my husband looking at me or touching me! I still weight about 140, which I can live with the extra weight. I needed to gain weight anyway. But looking pregnant I can't deal with. I bind, suck in, and my wardrobe consists of huge tee shirts and baggy shorts. At my daughters baptism this past Sunday I was so self conscious and sucking in so hard I was miserable and in pain the whole time. I'm sorry ladies to be complaining, but I have no other resources or people who understand. My family just says "welcome to being fat". Not helpful at all.