SO stressed and ignoring me? Help me... What do I do?

Question

My SO is in the military and stressed with certain circumstances that he is involved in. Because he is stressed he has totally withdrawn from me - his one support system - and only plays video games all day and completely ignores me...

Before we use to be so spontaneous and fun together and because of his stress he has completely withdrawn. I don't know what to do. I just feel so helpless.

Answer

Maybe he needs to cope on his own? My hubs is a vet and he would get like this. I would just try to let him know you love him and you're there if he needs to talk. It's a hard job and sometimes we as the significant others can't do much but let them work through it.

Is he somewhere where you can send him mail? I used to send my husband (then boyfriend) care packages. When he was in tech school I would decorate boxes and load them with goodies.

SO stressed and ignoring me? Help me... What do I do?

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