How come I'm like this???

Question

Why can't I work like everybody else?

I complain about the position I'm in yet there is opportunities to get myself out of it, but I go in a circle. I'm speaking about my family and people I have to deal with. I work as a writer at home, opportunities up the butt, but I'm so depressed and lazy. And living with them makes its worse.

People tell me all of the time I complain about the same things over and over again, never do anything about it. I'm 27. I have a fiancé that tells me the same thing. What's wrong with me? My family keeps taking advantage of me, I don't pay rent but I do help, they treat me like crap. Can anyone help me or tell me what to do?

Answer

Move out. Jump on one of those opportunities.

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Go to doctor maybe even look into possible adult ADHD along with depression and anxiety issues. I can relate. Set some goals in writing and do it! Hang in there. 💕

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You and only you can change that. You stated you were depressed. Depression is no joke it is a serious mental illness. You need to seek help maybe talk to someone like a close friend. As for the laziness that's unfortunatly comes with depression. As for your family maybe they are the reason your so depressed. As you stated you work at home. Maybe try to take a walk by your self once a day to get out of the house and away from people.

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No offense Pat but you keep asking the same ? And people keep giving you the same advice and telling you to just get up and make yourself go do things. Asking the same thing a million times or in different ways isn't going to magically yield a different answer. If you have a therapist talk to them also try different medications if you have meds that aren't working sometimes it takes trying others to find the right one for your body chemistry. Stop asking everyone how to get up and do something and just do it the end

How come I'm like this???

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