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It's one thing if your man appreciates what you do but it sounds like he doesn't. My husband makes his own breakfast and lunch, if not his mom. If I happen to be up I might make something but geez, men are such babies.
Always justifying the unjustified
I cooked today roast potatoes and some other things my fiance doesn't like roast I knew that but I do so I said u can take care of yourself for dinner then.....smh then I find myself justifying the situation like he did work all week and then came home and did his thing in the bedroom now I'm stuck cooking 2 different meals ughhhhhh and its homemade pull pork at that! This stuff take time! Frustrated! Idk why I always find myself giving into his tantrums!
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Am
My gender role is having his babies and cleaning. When a role marks you unhappy though, it's time to switch things up.
te
but i am😢i one of the not normal ones that believe in gender roles to a certain degree
Am
I'm a SAHM and have the time, I just choose not to. My husband is completely fine with it. If I do, he appreciates it, if I don't, no biggie. I have huge issues with expectations. I'm not a good house wife 😆
Compromise. I know there are some things that I eat and my husband doesn't so during the week I will make things we both like and then on weekends when he works and im at home I'll eat things I like so there aren't arguments and I'm not pulling double duty in the kitchen.
te
smh right!
MB
I would say eat what's there or fix it yourself lol
te
right thats what i told him i fix his lunches 5days a week for work also get up n early a.m like 5 and make him breakfast before he go to work then he comes home to dinner.....so i told him weekends are on u but no smh he wants me to make dinner on the weekend to! although he did make breakfast and lunch but still!
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