My on again off again fiance and I have been trying to conceive since our first year anniversary. It seems like no matter what we do we never succeed. It has put a huge strain on our relationship to the point we kept splitting up. A few years back i did however end up pregnant but i didnt know at the time i was until i had the most severe pain in my back and abdomen. The hospital told me i had a ectopic pregnancy. The baby ruptured my fallopian tube and i had to have surgery. I was told i had a chance to still conceive with my obe fallopian tube but I feel like giving up on having a family of my own. Its to sad each month finding out im not.