Do you think its okay to TTC without telling your partner?

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Comments or concerns?

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Is it okay to do anything behind your spouses back?

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I'd like to know what it depends on, for the ones who voted for that option!

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Never acceptable.

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It's unethical to force a woman into parenthood, and it is equally unethical to force a man into parenthood. Even worse if you are forcing your spouse without their consent or knowledge.

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No. That would never be okay. Having a child should always be a mutual decision. However there have been times I haven't mentioned a positive opk to my so. Just to avoid putting a lot of pressure on having sex around that time. At this point it's become more of a chore than anything. As for actually having a child, we've had many in depth discussions and decided as a couple we are more than ready to take that step. If he had any concerns about it, a compromise would have been made. I'm not going to force him into having a child when he's not ready for it.

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They should have just as much say as you do.

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Well...i will say i do want a baby BAD lol and im not takin any procautions. Im not on bc and he knows this. He pulls out but sometimes he cums (he says its precum but im about 99.9% sure its not lol it looks just like he came. Precum is clear and does NOT come out as much as he does but he says its precum) we rarely have sex when im fertile and its not purposely i dnt think cuz i kno when im most fertile. I think hes scared to ask me but he brings up kids evry once n a while & looks like hes tryna get something out of me like hints and since we love eachother but the relationship is a little rocky at the moment i try to change the subject cuz im nervous he will say something i dnt want to hear. He does have a son from a previous relationship so im a little scared to ask too. Things dont seem to be going so well with him with that and the babys mom. I picked yes because i would like to have a baby with him but just doin the "if it happens it happens" kinda thing. I think a baby would bring us closer if it did happen. We both love kids.

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That's illegal. Reproductive coercion. Wait until he takes you to court for it if you want... or you could just be an adult and ASK his feelings about having a baby.

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No!!!! Very, very BAD!

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No.... It needs to be the right time for both of you. You would basically be trapping him with a baby. It's better to just discuss it and make the decision together. It could ruin a relationship. Getting pregnant on accident is one thing, but going behind his back and deliberately trying to get pregnant without his permission.. I feel is wrong. To each their own. This is my opinion on the matter. Any I know who has tried to do this.. It never turns out well.

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