I feel like i can't do anything without my boyfriends say-so. Or even doing things independently. He has different "rules" for me then he has for himself. He always spends time with his guys but i don't even spend time with my girls anymore. He would always get mad. I always end up doing things he likes & things that interest him even if I'm not interested. I rarely do things i love to do anymore. He is never at fault when we argue too its always my fault no matter what it is. I feel like i have to give in or else fighting will go on forever. How do i take control? I don't know what to do anymore. I love him but i don't want a controlling relationship..