No connection with baby

So, I'm a first time mom at 23 and I've wanted a baby for as long as I can remember. My little girl moves alot and she responds through kicks if I gently push one side or start talking. I don't feel her move in the morning until I start talking or get up. Otherwise it's like she knows I'm still trying to sleep. My SO says good morning to her and she will move around then too. My problem is that when I look down I keep thinking "that's a baby" instead of "that's MY baby"..... I feel like I have no connection with my own daughter. I'm only 21w 4d (9/4/15) so I know it's early for a lot of things. But is it too early for me to feel a connection with her? In no way would I ever consider abortion or doing anything to hurt her or terminate the pregnancy but I just feel like God gave me a gift and I'm unable to appreciate this like I should be. I'm very open and would really like some input on this so please don't hesitate to ask questions.