So currently my inlaws who are from another country are living with us until December. I am sort of grateful for pumping bc it allows me time away to decompress. It is really stressful me living with them bc they do not speak English (and I only know how to talk like a 2 yro in theirs), they have a diff culture when it comes to household chores/baby care, they smoke (although thankfully respect me enough to to go outside) and added more financially as we now have to buy more food and stuff.