Unsure :/

Hey ladies I wasn't really sure where to post this. My husband and I just suffered a devastating miscarriage after trying so long to conceive. We are absolutely heartbroken. I've never experienced anything like this and have absolutely no idea how to handle this. I was thrilled to be pregnant and I feel like I've let my husband down. I really wanted to have a baby but now I'm so terrified to get pregnant again. We've talked about it and are trying to figure out how to go about things and return to normality. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks to whoever reads this.