Miscarriage posts

By no means am I telling people not to post their losses but is it making anyone else feel super paranoid? Regardless of how far along you are? I was a complete wreck through the first 12 weeks and as I had ultrasounds and heard the heartbeat I felt better but then I go on the forum and there lots of missed miscarriage stories then I start to freak out. I know everyone is different and like I said I'm not telling people not to post because this is a good place for support but its making me super paranoid through my pregnancy. Please no mean or hateful comments.