I have a request (if it's too much then I understand)... but my husband and I are TTC but at the moment we are actually in the process of adopting a child that "came in our path".... my question is this (for those of you who can relate) I'm not certain on whether or not I'm going to tell him he is adopted.... maybe when he like 18.... honestly I'm still very undecided about.... but any personally experiences with this and your opinion on how to handle it would be greatly appreciated. TIA