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I don't talk to anybody who calls themselves a "MilSO" screams off a sense of entitlement. I've gotten off all those type of pages because the last thing they do is talk about the military. It's like a cliche book club that gets together and talks about everything but the book. Just get off the pages, you'll experience life better without them, and you'll make friends easier without them. Anything you need to understand about the military can be figured out through your s/o and google.
Anybody else can't stand most MilSos?
I'm on this page on fb and the girls on there are so annoying. I thought joining a MilSo specific page would help me better understand being a military relationship, but instead it's constant whining from all the other members on there. You would think those pages would be to only talk about your s/o and answer questions or share military experiences but instead it's constant crap about everything but that- and it seems like all the pages I've found are exactly the same.
I've only found one Instagram page that is good and post 99% military based questions or anything of the sort which is what I've been looking for. If I wanted to hear women whine about dinner I would've joined a surburban mom's page.
I can't tell if my hate for the page stems from whiny women or just annoyance with MilSo women.
If you can't handle being in a military or even long distance relationship and have to whine about it every second do it on your own page and stop bothering everyone else about it. Didn't join the group to hear you cry 😒
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I find ALL women are either whiny or crazy. Only a smallPercentage are ladies id like to spend time with. Possibly the other reason MilSo's whine more is because a lot of them don't work. So their days are spent at home, bored. ??? Idk just a thought. A military spouse can be an understanding friend but you just have to be willing to take the time to do the legwork to find a good one. Lol
Ki
f I just stayed home I'd go nuts. I tend to not talk to other wives, especially during deployment time.
Ni
Hence the reason I refuse to live on base. Lol. And yes! There are some! They're just not as easy to come by. Good luck with your search!
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Lol usually those are the ones who live on post!! Nothing better to do with their time. I've met some stay at home moms who aren't crazy
Not sure where you're stationed, but my local military spouse page is full of amazing men and women who are constantly having meaningful discussions, offering great advice, posting about activities and resources on base, and hosting brunches, fundraisers, etc. I think with most any group, there will always be people that are the annoying and whiney ones, but in my husband's 7 years in the Air Force, I've found more amazing and helpful spouses than ones who love drama.
They aren't all like that. Trust me, you have to expect that from any page called a "milso" page lol ....the man I'm married to has been in the military 7 years and we have been married 6. There are kind hearted, understanding, & meaningful friendships to be made in the military community....Internet groups for young women who refer to themselves as a milso is not the place...I would try reaching out to your significant others command/squadron FRG team and get connected that that :)
C
That way* haha
Your not alone I try to stay away from them especially the ones who live on base they seem to be the worst!!! Mainly all the spouses I know are off post and are calm & cool.
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I understand you don't have the option at times if the soldier is lower enlisted but all the spouses I know say the same exact thing, the ones on base are full of drama, complain about the dumbest things etc, you barely hear anything from the ones who live off base.. So this isn't just my take on it
Sa
Idk if you can generalize, & sometime you dont always have the option of on or off base housing
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