Question for SAHMs or housewives

TTC #2 due 3/29

How do you get your housework done? I really do have the time to get the basics done, but it never does. The dishes and laundry pile up. By the time my son go down for a nap or to sleep I just want to relax not do the dishes!!! Need advice on how to get this stuff done, I think my husband is sick of seeing our house a mess.

Also how to not resent when he does less of the housework? We used to split it but since I quit my job it all falls in my lap, which it should! It's just not the fun part of the day and went alot faster when we did it together.