Is it me let me know if I'm expecting too much

Is it so wrong to expect something every now and then birthdays Valentine's day or Christmas from your so I'm the type of person who helps everyone out out of the kindness of my heart but I want to be treated the way I do my relationships and everyone else I have a good man. But is it being selfish to want to be surprised every now and then but the thought that counts we been together over a year since then I've had two birthdays one Valentine's day and a Christmas and I've got nothing