He doesn't want the mess...

Sara
So I have been trying to get my fiance to stop using condoms. We are getting married in march and I don't think we need to use them anymore. he says he doesn't like my public hair and won't all using condoms until I get it waxed and he also says he doesn't want the mess afterwards. He likes how he can just take off the condom and his semen is all contained. I need some advice on talking to him about this. I have given him so many solutions and he agrees and wants to do it but these 2 things ar always what holds him back. Please help!