Orgasm?!

Question

I've never orgasmed. At all. In my entire life. Even on my own. I just started sleeping with this guy and it's a big concern of his, so I'm hoping maybe you guys have suggestions? Or is there something wrong with me?

Answer

It's really hard for me too. My boyfriend is the only one who can get me there, and so far we've only found one position that I can get there from sex. I would just try a whole bunch of stuff. And make sure you're not thinking about anything, clear your mind. A lot of it is because you're thinking about it too much

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First learn how to do it on your own ☺️ if you don't know you're body, a guy sure as well won't. Once you've gotten comfortable with making yourself cum, tell your boyfriend "like this" don't be shy..have a drink or two, not sloppy drunk but enough to make you lose inhibitions and get flirty you know? If you're not nervous it'll happen easier good luck 😊

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Honestly a lot of it is in your head. Like when you're so focused on having an orgasm sometimes you forget to relax and let yourself enjoy the time you're having with your partner. Whenever things get really intense with your partner you should try thinking to yourself "I want to have an orgasm and I deserve an orgasm" and it's definitely helped me before. But when you guys are having sex with the main goal of giving you an orgasm, you lose sight of the intimate time you're spending with each other and it's a lot less natural. Also I've found that a lot of different positions and angles help too. A lot of different girls have different g-spots so you guys should try to figure out where yours is. 
But the main thing that's helped me in the past is just to relax and let yourself enjoy the time you're spending with your partner and try new things and find out what you like! Demand that orgasm, girl!

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Mine are really weird sometime I orgasm from just kissing or touching and sometimes I just can't, there's nothing wrong with you, it's pretty normal. Try vibrators, dildos, ect. Works for me.

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It took me a LONG time to orgasm with a guy. I would suggest exploring your body on your own to really discover what you like and don't like. I felt that once I orgasmed on my own it became easier for me to tell the guy what to do (because let's face it guys can be completely clueless down there). To be completely honest, I hadn't had a guy make me orgasm til I met my husband even though boyfriends in the past tried and failed.

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I can't orgasm on my own either. My suggestion is buy a vibrator. It's kinky and it's a lot of fun and a sure way to help you out.

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