Just my luck :(

mskat
I had an hsg on September 2nd. I was scared but excited about it because I heard it could be painful (it was) but I've heard so many post hsg bfp stories. Well right after the hsg I got so much ewcm. More than I've ever gotten and thought I was gearing up to ovulate right on time just like every other month...got busy every other day. But now here i am on cd 20 and realizing I'm having an annovutionary month ( not ovulating this month). I track my bbt and got no shift in temps at all and my temps are actually lower than usual. Feeling like my body hates me:(.....now waiting for cycle 13 to start...and I get an invitation to my best friends gender reveal party. I just want to curl up in bed and cry:(