How to talk to your SO about wanting a child. I have always wanted one but recently I was late and we decided it was time to take a test and my heart shattered when it came back negative. He said it was probably best that it came back negative for now, but he seemed off when it came back negative. I just don't understand what he actually wants. I normally know what he wants when it comes to a pregnancy scares, but this time I don't. When I would ask before the test what he wanted it to be he would say that he didn't know what he wanted. What do you guys think? Should I talk to him about possibly trying??