Not sexy!? 🙈

My BF and I are moving out soon, been together for nearly 5 years, had our issues like most couples... Sex never being one of them and since finding out we are going to get a place together to move on has made us SO HAPPY and all things that go with that. UNTIL last night.
After a debate on bedroom antics my boyfriend told me ID NEVER been sexy in bed. I was shocked... He's not the type to compliment me so if I'm honest I don't really know what is sexy and what's not (apart from the obvious) that's 5 years down the line nearly and I feel our bedroom life has been disappointing. 
I need some advice and no I'm not gonna leave him. This is damage control before we move out!! 
Thanks 💕💁🏻