Leave, stay, what??

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So the last several months me and my SO only have sex 1-2 times a month. So ttc is really not on the table anymore. I don't know if he's not attracted to me anymore or cheating on me. I could only really think of the things of why. Why isn't he having sex with me.  Why?  Why? But we take showers together and everything's fine then we get in bed and he turns over and falls asleep. No I love you, no good night.... nothing.  What do y'all think?  I'm way fed up. Leave him? Move out for awhile? What??? I'm almost done.  Seems like he's never there for me anymore. Kinda sucks and saddens me. Help?

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Talk to him, not us. Ask him these questions. Communication is key.

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Sounds like you need to talk to him again. If you were TTC and everything because about that it might have put a rough edge on things. Only have sex 1-2 times a month you can still get pregnant though. But in regards to the relationship (first step), talk to him.

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definitely talk to him .. .

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Remember that relationships go through dry spells. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you, or care about. He could be under stress at work or just feeling down or insecure.  Talk to him, express your concerns. You h a very to communicate to make you relationship wotk. Good luck.

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Seems to me like he is not interested but is staying for whatever reason (hope that doesn't sound harsh)...if he doesn't say I love you or even good night...then something must be up...I would say try talking to him but he may get defensive and then just use that as an excuse to leave you...so before he can I would say leave him 1st...it would be a little easier on you...good luck :)

Leave, stay, what??

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