What is WRONG with me?!

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MC at 13 weeks in January. Just found out about a week and a half ago we were expecting another baby. Turns out my levels are super low and I started bleeding/cramping this morning. Chemical pregnancy at 4 weeks, 4 days. Now what? Do I ask for testing? I just don't get it.

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I'm so sorry. Yes, I'd say something is probably wrong and you should ask for testing to try to uncover what it is. Once you figure it out, there are treatment options for everything these days! But you have to clearly identify the problem first. Testing is the first step forward.

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I know how you feel I give up.  I have had a still birth at six months and two other misscarriages. We have tried month after month and nothing. I wanted to get testing done but now I just don't care!

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I'm so sorry! I've had two miscarriages (one at 5w and the other at 10w). Currently I'm 13w with our rainbow baby. I went through a ton of tests and they couldn't find anything wrong with my husband and I. They believe the first miscarriage was a chemical pregnancy and genetic testing on the second showed triploidy 69 possibly due to two sperm entering the egg. Both of these can happen to anyone at any time. We just happen to have them happen back to back. The only thing I'm doing differently with this pregnancy is taking a high dose prescription prenatal vitamin. Some doctors will try to make you wait until you have 3 miscarriages in a row. Luckily our doctor said two was enough. Sending you lots of hugs!!

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I'm sorry, LK :(

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I've also had two and my doctor decided to do testing. Be your own advocate and push for what you think is right!

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Aww I'm sorry I know the feeling 😢 usually they won't refere you until you've lost 3 pregnancies. Just keep your head up and I hope you get your rainbow 🌈

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I'm so sorry you're going through this. A lot of doctors won't look into things until you have three, but some specialists allow self referrals. I know several people who had two miscarriages before they successfully carried a baby full term. I hope you get the answers to your questions and your rainbow baby as soon as you're ready!

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